The New Testament emphasizes, again and again, the importance of church unity. This emphasis responds to the reality that, while we all long for meaningful connection, we also think we know best. Combine this presumption with busy schedules, tired parents, and assorted vocational and relational pressures and we can’t be too surprised when we view our church lives as something “extra.” Thinking this way places us in the position of perpetually weighing our commitments relative to how they benefit us. Such self-interest, however, serves neither meaningful human connection nor church unity.

 

With this my mindset, we joined our Trinity small group against my better judgment. I was nervous that it would be an unavoidable fixture on our already crowded schedule (it is), that people would expect more from me within it (they do), and that there would be times of awkwardness and vulnerability (there are). Since being wrong is a hallmark of my Christian life, the poor attitude was graciously returned with regular friendship, a concern for dedicated discipleship, and reminders of how deep the gospel penetrates. It has been something deeply life-giving amid activities that are often not. In our case, it has gifted us with relationships which form not only us, but our children as well. They learn what it means to serve Christ in the world from other adults who care for them in ways different than their parents. It has given us a “place” in the world – a space where we live, learn, and love Christ together.